Why being a White American Jew is not the same as being a Black American
As I returned home from the Black Student Union’s powerful sit-in at Allderdice yesterday, I was thinking of the inspiring, courageous students who organized and spoke at the event. Their words will stick with me as I unlearn the prejudice within me and aim to practice antiracism. In addition, I was upset by what one of the speakers had to say. Rabbi Jeffrey Myers is the leader of the Tree of Life synagogue, and was there when it was horrifically massacred in 2018. No one can deny that it was an awful, hideous act, and that antisemitism exists in America.
Rabbi Myers should be recognized for leading his congregation through the unimaginable, and for advocating against White supremacy since the shooting. The rhetoric I heard him use in his speech at the BSU protest, however, felt wrong.
Rabbi Myers approached the topic of racism from a place of understanding by identifying his own experiences with oppression. He expressed that he understood racism because he is a Jew. Making this comparison was an inaccurate conflation of two very different situations. Even though both American antisemitism and racism stem from White supremacy, there are many important differences between being Jewish and being Black. If you are walking down the street, one can see the color of your skin; they cannot, however, see your religion. So much of anti-Black racism lies in subtle glances and assumptions, and Jews, unless they are wearing signifying clothing, are not immediately identifiable. Even if you are a White Jew, and are wearing a kippah or traditional tzitzit, others do not cross the street because they are afraid of you. I am a White Jew, and I choose not to wear Jewish memorabilia on a daily basis. Black people cannot choose to stop being Black.
Antisemitism is horrible, yes. Having said that, being a White Jew in America is not the same as being Black. We did not arrive to America in cramped slave ships to be sold like animals and extorted for free labor. We are not the victims of centuries of frequent attacks by the government that is supposed to serve us. We are not the victims of educational inequity, gentrification, and voter suppression. It is wrong to equate the general experiences of being a White Jew with being Black in 2020 America.
Rabbi Myers, of course, has gone through an unimaginably traumatic experience due to White Supremacy. When speaking of this experience, he attributed the police for being the reason he’s still alive today, and said he is eternally grateful for the police who saved his life. Instead of leaving it at that, he should have recognized that for Black Americans, Jewish or not, interactions with police officers often do not go the same way. Black Americans are 2.5 times more likely to be killed by police than White Americans. It is possible to be grateful for your life being saved while also understanding that even though the system serves you, there are many people whom it doesn’t.
Rabbi Myers went on to preach against the word “hate,” which is plainly a word to describe a feeling. This is ignoring the real problem. Instead of pretending the construct does not exist, all White people must dismantle it in our own souls and in our systems. White supremacy will not be demolished simply by removing a word from English speakers’ vocabularies. Further, to rail against the “h-word,” at a Black Lives Matter event was incredibly ill-advised in light of a much more negative word targeted against the Black community. The n-word exists, and White people still throw it around as if it doesn’t carry a cruel, painful history with it. Sure, hate is generally not constructive. But it is certainly valid if Black people hate the system that has abused them for centuries. Hate is not the enemy; racism, oppressive systems, and White supremacy — far more nuanced than the word “hate” — are.
As a Jew, I felt embarrassed listening to Rabbi Myers speak. The first enslaved Africans were brought to American shores in 1619*, and Deuteronomy 16:20 in the Torah teaches us, “justice, justice, you shall pursue.” When oppression occurs, justice must follow. In order to achieve justice for all American lives, those of us who are White and Jewish must acknowledge our immense privilege. The best way to be Jewish, right now, is to support the Black Lives Matter movement, knowing that Black people face immense discrimination and oppression different than anyone else could fully understand. Educating yourself about racism, rather than living through it, is a privilege. Use it. I hope Rabbi Myers reflects on the context of his words, and works to use them in a more sensitive and constructive way moving forward.
Antisemitism and racism both plague America’s systems and Americans’ hearts and minds. As a Jew who lives just blocks from the Tree of Life synagogue, I know that both need to be dismantled for America to be the land of the free it says it is. And as a White person, I am taking this time to listen to Black voices, so they can tell us what they have been screaming for so long while White America’s knees were on their necks.
Black lives matter. Go to protests, get educated, listen to Black voices, and support all Black people, including Black Jews. It is the responsibility of White Americans to dismantle racism. It’s the Jewish thing to do.
Pavel Marin • Mar 12, 2021 at 10:16 pm
One of the best articles yet!
Maryam algalay • Jun 25, 2020 at 4:00 pm
Very beautiful and amazing work!!
Ms. Garnett • Jun 17, 2020 at 4:17 pm
Amazing job, Abigail!! Thank you for your courage in saying what is on your mind and heart!
Celine O'Neill • Jun 15, 2020 at 3:17 pm
Thank you for such a thought provoking, inspiring and empathetic piece. Your age and your wisdom give me hope for the future, in these dark times!
Paul O'Neill, Jr. • Jun 15, 2020 at 1:12 pm
Abigail, Thank you for sharing such an insightful and powerful message. My father, Paul O’Neill, who was a thought leader on many topics would have enjoyed this article and been proud to know you. Best to you. Paul O’Neill, Jr.
Jadyn Gibson • Jun 15, 2020 at 11:49 am
Dude I love this so Much. This was everything I felt and said, but couldn’t say because I didn’t know if I was overstepping my bounds. I loved reading every second of this. Thank you for your voice.
Jeffrey Martin • Jun 15, 2020 at 7:57 am
I love it! Great analysis! You are saying the things that need to be said. Now we can have this conversations. Thank you!
Alison Wolfson • Jun 14, 2020 at 8:19 pm
Your wisdom, empathy, passion and action give me hope, Abigail. Thank you for this wonderfully expressed article and all that you do.
Tereneh Idia • Jun 14, 2020 at 1:12 pm
So proud of you, thank you for this. I know 1619 has become “the date” to begin Enslavement of Africans in the America however it did begin earlier. The 1619 date is English slave traders. Here is a link to more information.
Thanks again for this wonderfully insightful piece.
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/misguided-focus-1619-beginning-slavery-us-damages-our-understanding-american-history-180964873/
Abigail Segel • Jun 15, 2020 at 8:18 am
Thank you for letting me know! I’ll add a note about this onto the editorial.
Karen Goldner • Jun 14, 2020 at 1:09 pm
Beautifully said, Abigail.
Dana Gold • Jun 14, 2020 at 12:55 pm
Powerful and insightful. Thank you for your leadership in challenging us all to get past our comfortable narratives.
Larry Berger • Jun 14, 2020 at 12:47 pm
Well-stated, clear, thought-provoking and courageous, Abigail. I hope you’ll continue to write. If you or other Foreword writers would ever like to create audio versions of articles for radio or podcast, we’d be happy to support you via youthexpress.org. Feel free to let me know.
Abigail Segel • Jun 15, 2020 at 8:27 am
This sounds great! Once school starts again we’ll talk about this opportunity with the newspaper staff.
Rebecca O'Connell • Jun 13, 2020 at 3:44 pm
What a smart, brave, well- written article.
Jenn mcfoy • Jun 12, 2020 at 3:35 pm
Could not have been better written . thank you for this piece and the wisdom of our youth